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Dads get it too: a father's postpartum depression
A dad shares the panic and isolation he felt after his son was born, and how speaking up about paternal postpartum depression saved his family.
Nobody asks the dad
When our son was born, every question went to my wife. How was she sleeping, how was she feeling. Meanwhile I was falling apart. I could not concentrate at work, I drank more than I should, and I felt like a stranger in my own home.
The breaking point
One night my wife found me sitting in the dark nursery, just crying. She did not say I was weak. She said, 'I think we both need help.' That sentence saved me.
Getting better
I started therapy and, eventually, medication. I learned that fathers can develop postpartum depression too, especially when sleep is gone and the relationship has shifted overnight. Naming it made it smaller.
What I want you to know
If you are a new dad and you feel numb, angry, or hopeless, that is not just 'being tired.' Reach out, to a doctor, a friend, or your partner. Your mental health matters to your baby, and asking for help is part of showing up as a father.